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Wednesday 13 December 2017

Internet good for love ... but don't be picky

INTERNET dating is now the second most common way of meeting a partner, research shows.

Only introductions made through friends help more people to find love.

But dating sites' claims that they employ "science-based" methods of bringing lonely hearts together cannot be trusted, say scientists.

A review of more than 400 psychology studies found there was no longer any stigma attached to internet dating.

According to one industry estimate, dating sites attracted 25 million users worldwide in April last year alone.

The researchers said internet dating was a great help to single people in Western societies, for whom matchmaking was "grossly inefficient" after leaving school or university. However, they warned that online love had serious pitfalls for the unwary.

Professor Harry Reis, from the University of Rochester, US, one of the study's co-authors, said: "Online dating is definitely a new and much-needed twist on relationships.



Healthy

"The internet holds great promise for helping adults form healthy and supportive romantic partnerships," he said. But he cautioned that comparing large numbers of potential dates may encourage a "shopping mentality", leading people to become over-picky and focused on narrow criteria such as attractiveness or interests.

Corresponding by computer for weeks or even months before meeting face-to-face could also create unrealistic expectations.

Online sites may also encourage fruitless and ultimately destructive quests for "perfect match" soulmates.

In the early 1990s, fewer than 1pc of the US population met partners through printed personal advertisements or dating agencies, Prof Reis and his colleagues reported.

By 2005, 37pc of single American adults who were internet users and seeking a partner had dated online.

The latest research,showed that between 2007 and 2009, 22pc of heterosexual couples and 61pc of same-sex couples had met on the internet.

Those figures were likely to be greater today, said the review authors.

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