Ben Affleck is managing to live a relatively private life in a Hollywood fishbowl.
He is no longer tailed daily by the paparazzi, as he was when he dated Jennifer Lopez from 2002 to 2004. It was a time when entertainment coverage was starting to explode and the couple were on the cover of every magazine and tabloid, and the top story on television entertainment shows.
"I definitely was in a tabloid crosshair," he said recently. "It mucks up your life."
He described the attention as "sort of snarky and venal and ... overwhelming".
The paparazzi weren't going to change their ways, so Affleck changed his life. He married Jennifer Garner, had three children and cut down his "compulsive" work schedule.
But not entirely. Affleck was in Washington DC this week to raise awareness for something else he holds dear: his Eastern Congo Initiative to cut the child mortality rate in the region.
Now, the paparazzi only occasionally take photos of Affleck and Garner when they're out with Violet (6), Seraphina (3) and four-month-old Sam.